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Married to a Blogger: The Husbands Tell All!

Have you ever wondered how my husband feels about being married to a blogger? Well, today is the day you are going to find out!

I have joined nine bloggers, who happen to be some of my dearest friends, for a blog hop to celebrate Father’s Day, but with a twist. We are handing our blogs over to our hubbies! They are sharing their thoughts, secrets, and feelings about what we do! Be sure to find links to all of their posts at the bottom of mine.

As much as I love Tony, and trust him, I’ll be interjecting from time to time. Find my comments in italics.

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When did you first meet your wife and what was your first impression?

Get ready as this may be the only picture I will paint with words in this post…I first met Jennifer on March 17, 2005 at Perry’s Grille in The Woodlands, TX. It was the first day of March Madness and a buddy and I decided to go there for some wine and appetizers and take in the evening games of the tournament in the bar. At a table behind us, several ladies were gathered and my friend said to me “some talent just walked in.” Boy, was he ever right. Jen and I began talking that night and the rest is history. 

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Which one of you more aggressively pursued the other? 

I would have to say that I was completely enamored by her. I drove to San Antonio from Houston on two separate occasions knowing I would be able to see her for a few hours each time. 

Isn’t he the best?

What are the best and worst parts of your wife’s job as a blogger? 

Best: Without a doubt, this is her passion. She adores decorating and she also loves the thrill of the hunt as she is looking for “that perfect piece” to add to a space within our home. Also, she loves the feedback from followers and blog readers as to her suggestions and decorating guidance.

Worst: The technical aspects can be quite frustrating for she and I both. While neither of us maintain a technical background, she more so than me, has learned on the fly. But, it takes a lot of time to manage and ensure all is in sync on the back side of the blog. 

How do you explain what your wife does for a living to your friends and coworkers? 

I explain that she has an Instagram account in the interior design and lifestyle space. She also maintains a blog and works with multiple brands assisting them in showcasing the latest products and trends. I am literally in awe of what she has built and accomplished. 

What is something we might not know about your wife? 

She was a Diamond Doll at Oklahoma State University for the Cowboys baseball team. 

And I’m still a huge fan!

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What does your wife do that drives you crazy? 

If we need to leave at 8:00, I will tell her 7:45…and we will still leave at 8:15. Book it. 

Or 8:30. Sorry Babe.

What would she say you do that drives her crazy? 

I know I have an annoying habit of doing two things at once while one of them is talking to her. I need her to repeat things on occasion.  

Oh my gosh, more than occasionally. Like 50 times a day. He also watches A LOT of sporting events….. often the reason for the wife ignoring. For the record, he watches The Bachelor with me too though, which is pretty sweet of him. 

If you had an extra $10,000 that you could do anything you wanted with (no saving, investing, or donating allowed!), what would you spend it on? Would your wife be on board?

I would book us for one week at The Ritz-Carlton, Laguna Niguel in one of their Fireside Ocean View rooms. And by us, I mean she and I, plus Riley and Ava. She would absolutely be on board with this decision. 

I would, it’s our go-to spot. Always.

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You get home from work and your wife is giving you “the look”. What have you most likely done to get yourself into trouble?

Being an only child, I have possibly delved down some decision silo independent of Jen. Whoops. 

What’s your favorite trip you have taken with your wife/family? 

Having lived on three different Hawaiian islands notwithstanding, some of our greatest and fondest memories are trips to NYC. We love everything about the city from the vibrancy to the endless food and entertainment options to the incredible landmarks. There is nothing like a week in NYC. 

Didn’t know this. Tony is a city boy for sure. One of our first trips was an 8 night stay in New York City. It was amazing and we extended it while we were there. He used to say his favorite was a trip to the Fiesta Bowl in 2011. He called it the best 3 days of our marriage. Again, sports. 🙂 

Any trip that includes a beautiful hike would also qualify as a favorite.

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Do you have a “man cave”? If so, where? 

I do not have a man cave in our current home. Perhaps in the next one!

He tried to make it happen when we were building this home. I was on board, he needs one. 

What’s one thing that your wife is super “picky”/particular about? 

Oh, this is easy…the table we will be sitting at for lunch or dinner in a restaurant. She is an “atmosphere” girl and I love this about her. 

Lol. Hostesses hate me. 

What’s your favorite dinner that your wife makes? What is your specialty? 

Jennifer makes amazing chicken enchiladas. My specialty would be some variety of surf and turf, usually comprised of a filet mignon coupled with lobster. 

His belongs in the kitchen. His cooking skills are amazing and far beyond mine.

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Are you a DIY-er or more of a “hire the professional” type of guy? 

I am a falls in the middle of these two. Historically, I would always hire a professional to take care of things. But, with the current pace of activity, we are doing more things ourselves. Now, regarding the big things (painting the entire home), I will always hire a professional. Plus, we love our painter, whom Jen has known for many years. 

What do you think about your wife’s blogger friends? Who do you hear about the most? Have you met any of them? 

This sounds like a trap. Kidding…I love her tribe! I know she is good friends with several of them. Randi, Bree, Shauna, Kris, Kelley Nan, Erin, Tamara, Haneen, and Brittany. I have met many of the ladies and their husbands. It is easy to see why she enjoys them. 

Matt & Randi

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Tim & Shauna | Us | Kenny & Erin | Brittany & Mark

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Has your wife ever done a project that you secretly didn’t love but you never told her? 

The first One Room Challenge she took on, when I saw the design, I was really skeptical. Then, it was picked up by House Beautiful online and became one of the biggest posts of the year. After that, I’m pretty much on board with anything she wants to take on. 

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If you could live anywhere, where would it be? Would your wife agree? 

On the top of the hill in Laguna Beach, CA overlooking Woods Cove where we were married in 2010.

Yep, I could not agree more. 

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Woods Cove Laguna Beach

What’s your idea of the perfect Father’s Day? 

Our kids are actually my “bonus kids.” I met Jen when our youngest was 12. Now, they are grown and have a loving biological father. So, my first choice for Father’s Day is for them to get to see him. If seeing him is not possible, I love for them to come over and hang out with us. We have an amazing time together as a family. The laughs are nonstop. 

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There you have it! He’s a keeper! 

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Please take a moment to visit the other bloggers’ posts! They are fun and entertaining and I know you will love them!
Kelley – Kelley Nan
Erin – Sunny Side Up
Randi – Randi Garrett Design
Kris – Driven by Decor
Shauna – The House of Silver Lining
Bree – Z Design at Home
Haneen – Haneen’s Haven
Brittany – Addison’s Wonderland
Tamara – Citrine Living

I hope you’ll stay connected…..

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  1. Kelley Nan says

    June 14, 2018 at 8:24 am

    Jen, Tony is SUCH a gem- I am still bitter I’m the only one who missed him #dangearlyflights We WILL remedy that soon!!

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    • Jennifer says

      June 14, 2018 at 2:16 pm

      I’m bitter too. We were in the next room being loud enough for the security guys to tell us to shut it and you were getting your limited beauty rest before that ridiculously early flight. We need a do-over!

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  2. Haneen says

    June 14, 2018 at 8:58 am

    Awww! Jen! I love his answer for Father’s Day! What a sweet man! You two are such a beautiful couple! Loved doing this with you! So fun!

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    • Jennifer says

      June 14, 2018 at 2:18 pm

      He’s seriously the best bonus dad ever. I really got lucky! LOVED doing this with you too! xoxo

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  3. Courtney Hamby says

    June 14, 2018 at 9:14 am

    Oh my goodness you two are seriously the cutest and sweetest couple ever!! I love hearing more about the men behind the scenes!!!

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    • Jennifer says

      June 14, 2018 at 2:21 pm

      Thanks so much Courtney!!! I got lucky that night 13 years ago! You are so sweet to stop by. I loved the behind the scenes stuff too. xoxo

      Reply
  4. Tana - Your Marketing BFF says

    June 14, 2018 at 9:50 am

    Tony – you are me, my friend! And Jen – you are more like Bryan! haha. I’m early, don’t really listen to what he’s blabbing (-er, I mean talking about) so need it on repeat and Bry tries to get me to watch The Bachelor with him — on rare occasions I will watch along side of him (usually the first and last -it’s about all I can stomach). haha

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    • Jennifer says

      June 14, 2018 at 2:22 pm

      Lol! I already knew that! You are the husband for sure! Or maybe Bryan is the wife! Either way, I love how well it works for you! Thanks so much for stopping by!!! xoxo

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  5. Randi says

    June 14, 2018 at 10:53 am

    Jen I just love you guys! Tony you are amazing! I am so happy you guys found each other and then found us!

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    • Jennifer says

      June 14, 2018 at 2:26 pm

      Ditto! Matt is just the sweetest. I am grateful beyond words for your friendship and I love knowing how much you are loved by your hubby! xo

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  6. Tamara says

    June 14, 2018 at 2:54 pm

    I love Tony – his answers are so sweet!! What an absolute doll and I am so lucky we got to meet in NYC! I just love that you have such a beautiful relationship! Maybe we will end up being neighbors in CA someday, Jen, Neil had the same answer!! Love you so much, my friend!!

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    • Jennifer says

      June 14, 2018 at 3:58 pm

      Oh future neighbors for sure Tam! It’s happening!!! Loved your post too. Neil is a great catch! xo

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  7. Erin says

    June 14, 2018 at 4:24 pm

    Having met Tony I can honestly say he is one of the SWEETEST guys out there! Love him Jen and you two are made for each other! His answers were so darling – I love that he is always so supportive of everything you do. And we are twins! Kenny does the same thing with me.. tells me we have to leave 15 minutes earlier than we really do and I’m still usually 5 minutes late.. ha! I’m an atmosphere girl too and have asked for a different table at a restaurant more times than I can count. Love it! 🙂 Cutest post!! Loved it and love you! xo
    p.s. That’s the first pic I’ve seen of your kids are they are so beautiful Jen! Just like their mom. 🙂

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    • Jennifer says

      June 14, 2018 at 11:24 pm

      Awww! I love that we are the late twins and especially that you are picky about restaurant tables. Nothing worse than being stuck next to the kitchen! I am so glad we did this fun post! Learning about Kenny…. and your tattoo 😉 were the best parts! Happy Thursday my dear friend! xoxo

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  8. Shauna says

    June 14, 2018 at 6:45 pm

    Absolutely BEAUTIFUL photos of you two lovebirds!! The beach wedding with your family!❤️ I just love your story and can see how much you adore each other! We must get together soon when you get back to CO!!! We’re around most of the summer!!
    Xoxo

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    • Jennifer says

      June 14, 2018 at 11:28 pm

      You are so sweet! Thank you! Loved your post too. Tim is the best. Can’t wait to see you soon!!! Safe travels! xo

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  9. Gretchen Thomas (Mama Nan) says

    June 14, 2018 at 8:29 pm

    You are simply so beautiful, inside and out. This was such a great post. Loved learning more about you and your sweet husband.

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    • Jennifer says

      June 14, 2018 at 11:19 pm

      Thank you so much Mama Nan! So kind of you to stop by!

      Reply
  10. Vritika says

    June 15, 2018 at 1:16 am

    Love your husband’s answer! That’s so sweet of him saying how he knows you! This post really made my day and you both are so adorable 🙂 And the beach wedding? It is a blissful dream come true. Love you both 🙂

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    • Jennifer says

      June 17, 2018 at 12:13 am

      Thank you so much! He’s such a sweet guy!

      Reply
  11. Kris {Driven by Decor} says

    June 19, 2018 at 7:36 pm

    Tony is one of the few blogger husbands that I’ve met and what I loved the most about him is how obvious it is that he is head over heels in love with you. Seriously the perfect couple! That last answer about Father’s Day absolutely melts me heart!!!

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    • Jennifer says

      June 23, 2018 at 12:39 am

      Kris, we were just talking about you two meeting. That trip was so much fun! Thanks for your kind words about Tony. Hope we get to meet Jeff soon! xo

      Reply

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